Monday, April 11, 2011

How to have a Unique Wedding

How to have a Unique Wedding
I've said it before ... I believe that no two weddings should be the same... your wedding should be bespoke to you ... not a replica of someone else's.
At Unique, I specialise in the use of Unique venues & the creation of bespoke weddings & services. I don't believe that it matters what your budget is ...  it's about the way you choose to spend the money & ensuring that your day reflects your personality & the day you want to have.
So what are my top tips for planning a Unique Wedding Day ?For the process to begin, I think you both need to answer four key questions :
  1. What do you like about weddings?
  2. What do you really dislike about weddings?
  3. What do you want people to say about your Wedding?
  4. What is the total amount that you want to spend on your wedding?

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Start with a plan that you both agree on !

Wedding budget breakdown advice:This will vary slightly from book to book & between planners, but the below is a good indication (as supplied by the BBC web-site).
  • 45% on the wedding reception - venue, food, drink and cake
  •   5%  on ceremony - venue fees, wedding rings & choir
  •   8%  on all flowers
  •   5%  on transport - bridal cars and additional cars
  • 10% on photography and videography
  • 12% on wedding attire including dress
  • 15% on everything else - stationery, gifts for bridal party, wedding insurance, wedding night accommodation and honeymoon

Decide if these percentages are really the way that you want to spend your money. For example, having a great band may be more important to you than whether you have a selection of five canapes. You may choose to get married at a venue where you don't need transport etc. 
Using all your ideas, re-do your budget to show exactly what you want to spend your money on.

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Have your day exactly the way you want it : Image courtesy of RusticLifestyle.com

Venue & supplier search advice:Once you have a really good idea of what you both want from your day & know exactly what you want to spend on it then you are ready to find a venue & suppliers to match your theme & budget. Here are some of the things that I would look at:
  • How flexible is your wedding venue & are they interested in your ideas? 
  • Are you tied to set package for food & drink?
  • Have you got exclusive use of the venue?
  • Can you taste the food before your wedding day?
  • Can you use the suppliers you want to at your chosen venue?
  • Are there any restrictions on times for either the ceremony or closing time?
  • Are there minimum / maximum numbers of guests that you have to have?
  • Do you have to purchase rooms at the venue?
  • Is the venue happy to work with a wedding planner,should you chose to have one?
  • How flexible are suppliers on the options that they are offering?
  • Will they adapt to suit something that you particularly want?
  • What are their prices compared to the competition & if they are more / less expensive, what makes that difference?
  • Do they have testimonials & images of previous work, so you can ensure that they match your theme?
I hope you find this useful .... I do think that finding the just the right venue & theme will give you a Unique Day & one that you will remember forever .. for all the right reasons!  
Finally... hiring a good Wedding Planner will guarantee that you find the venue & suppliers to match both your style & budget ... I always start with a free consultation that covers all the above .. what have you got to loose??
Joy x

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